One day, a clergyman said to me that my wife was around me. He insisted that she was one of the everyday women that I talked with. My first reaction was sarcastic laughter. I did not believe him!
For Godsake, I am Soul’e Rhymez; I have a kind of personality that not too many guys have. It is impossible for a woman that will live with me for the rest of my life to have met & conversed with me, and not fall in love and show it.
My personality does not accommodate people staying on the fence; you either love me with all your heart and show it or hate me passionately and keep quiet about it. If you love me and show it, it is because you have the seed of greatness in & desire it, but if you hate me or love me and refuse to show it, it is because you do not have the seed of greatness in you & you are in love with mediocrity.
So, saying my wife was around me and did not make herself noticeable is the same as saying I will marry a mediocre woman. That is impossible! Some women love me and fight the feelings; I know many of them but I do not give a heck about them – they are mediocre women; they are lesser than ordinary – such women cannot even be my girlfriend, much more my wife.
Any woman that is comfortable with concealing love is wicked; strong for the wrong reasons; marrying such women is a pure disaster. They are weak! I do not wish to marry a weak woman; my wife will be a strong woman!
For a woman to have stayed around me for a long time, love me and manage not to show it is a weakness that I cannot live with – If I was to go by the clergyman’s claim, that was the type of woman he referred to and I knew it was impossible!
Why am I telling you this?
I am just reemphasizing the fact that concealing love for any reason at all is a weakness common to mediocre and lesser than ordinary people. If you are one such person, then you are mediocre.
If you you are a woman reading this and you love a man, yet you are not showing it, you are just showing that you are lesser than ordinary. Great & virtuous women do not conceal love. They choose love over security.
Every woman needs a man like me, but surely no mediocre, lesser than an ordinary woman will have me.
Credit; I_am_Soul’e Rhymez.