Please dear young people we seem to be losing the essence of relationships and opting for digital services instead. Most of the relationships we engage in today are online, not to say online relationships are bad but we seem to be losing the essence of relationships which are Comfort, love, support and togetherness, these physical attributes make relationships real and lasting. Cutrently, we often seem to choose who we are interested in from profile pictures and posts but seem to forget that beauty is superficial while attitude lasts. We jump into relationships with complete strangers and take their word as truth for who they are; lemme ask y’all this, “Would u make a bad description of yourself go a potential date??”
We continue plan and hook up just to have sex. That is no better than a committed sex worker’s job. And since the relationship has no actual basis and was built purely on infatuation and attraction, the time we spend in these online relationships fades the lustre from the people we thought were angelic, exposing us to who they really are, then we become either dissapointed or brokenhearted.
And to my dear ladies the power is in your hands if you don’t know, a relationship is built on your grounds. Open your eyes to the truth and stop being used as sex machines and being passed on from one relationship to another, being baited with materialistic things. Build concrete relationships with real people people you can relate to. Your real lasting life partner is not online he can be in your school, house, church, work and any other place.
And to men let’s not while away our youth being proud of conquering girls etc. If you know an older person who spent his youth doing such stuff ask how it has been after he became older?? All the girls would marry off while we would be caught in the superficial world we created, as time whiles away. When we are outta the bloom and folly of our youth. We live the rest of our lives with regret.
If you wanna do something do it worth while do it while you are young men and not when your kids are grown, then you’d still be hustling with them.