1. Lack of home training: There’s no more home training. The basic parental training that will form discipline, patience and godly character is no more available. A lady nowadays will not stay with her parents to be properly taught abs guided.
2. Wrong counsels from friends: A lady that’s a Bible illiterate, gullible and vulnerable will surround herself with careless, confused and ignorant friends yet meeting them for marriage and relationship counseling.
They don’t want to submit to mentorship and coaching to be properly instructed and guided to make the right choice.
3. Insincerity: This is the height of it. A lady would have been having sex with a man infact cohabiting with him before seeking counsel from her pastor or parents.
It’s this insincerity that makes them victim of players and deceivers. They are always untruthful to themselves when choosing a marriage partner.