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please I need your suggestion.
So I had an encounter with old friend from Facebook and we virbed.
So we (old classmates) organized a program of which I attended and I had the chance to meet him. Unfortunately, he was so shy to the extent that he couldn’t even talk to me in person 🤦🏾♀️. We lost contact for a while.
Months went by and I met this guy again(he was with a friend). To my surprise, this guy denied knowing me from anywhere😞 I was really sad but well live goes on 🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️ months later I went online again (Facebook) and this same guy came into my dm and he was like “where have you been I’ve missed you oo”😳 I was really shocked but as a crushing girl I need to forgive cause I really miss him too😫😓
So we chatted for a while then he asked for my number again, we became more close than first and I really fell for him to the extent of telling him everything about me and what I do 😂😂but I thought he was not feeling the same thing for me so I kept my cool. I told one of his friends about my feelings, of which gave me an assurance that he’ll do something about it.
Well his friend told him and he said he was crushing back(I was so excited when I heard that 😆)… so we kept our vibes on, hoping he will propose to me, and heaven came down on the first month of this year 🎉 . I accepted without hesitation.
Everything was good then boom 💥 it was time for him to go to school 😳 (tbh I had no idea of his schooling). I’m an SHS graduate and by God’s grace I’m doing my little clothing business 😇 (I couldn’t continue due to financial problem and my family needed support).
Although I didn’t prepare towards his school but I tried to get him something, it was a Polo top. Guess what, he rejected it. The rejection was not as painful as how he did it, in public! I was quickly covered by one of his friends and he took the gift on his behalf that it was all a joke. And I just got my mind off that incident.
So fast forward this guy begun to ignore me when he was in school and it got me, we were cool at beginning of the semester tho. But as time went on our relationship started to shake, to the extent that he couldn’t even wish me on Val’s day 😣.
I got him a Val’s gift worth $200 and he rejected it. This one really hurted me😞
I decided to get my mind off him but I couldn’t. He would post a status on WhatsApp, I’ll reply positively, he will ignore, and when I complain I become the bad person and end up apologizing.
For one whole week, no reply to my messages all in the name of I’m having quizzes( but he would come online, so annoying 😒)… I complained about that behavior and as usual, he made me the bad person… I decided not apologize this time because I was fed up, but because of the love I had for him, I apologized again so that peace could reign, but he didn’t even mind my apology text.
Hmmm, but I still love him so much that I can’t be without him😩
Is he real or he’s just playing with my feelings?
Is he cheating on me?
Should I forget him and move on?
Your suggestions will depict my next action.
Thank you 🙏🏽