Reality; Getting Over him.

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Hello Felicity….
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I’m a 25yrs old girl and I’m a mess right now because of my ex. So I met my ex in 2019 and we started talking and then started dating around June 2019. I had just completed the NTC and I had enough time to visit him since we were all based in Kumasi. I really loved him and I thought he loved me too. Somewhere in July last year(2020) I realized he would visit me very late at night and we could sit in his car chat and sometimes even had sex! He was acting weird and I could tell that he was going through a tough time. I’ll ask him and he’ll just say it’s pressure from work but I felt there was more to it.

Fast forward in August 2020, he made a shocking revelation that broke my heart💔! He told me that a lady helped her secure a job at COCOBOD and that her family is pressuring him to marry her🥺. I really got hurt and I cried. After some weeks I decided to let him go and have my peace☮️. We stopped talking and I deleted his number! Early this year, he started texting me on Facebook messenger saying he misses me and all that and I was ignoring him until he stopped and just some months ago he again texted me saying that he was just checking up on me and I foolishly believed him💔.

We suddenly became friends again. He would text me and I’ll reply lol. I asked him about how things ended with his job and if he married the lady and this guy told me that he didn’t marry her and because of that he has been transferred to Takoradi as a form of punishment from the lady’s dad. We then started chatting on WhatsApp bcx I fell for his lies and since I was single then I thought I could get back with him. He invited me to his place at Takoradi, I’m a Kumasi girl and I jumped on a bus for 7hrs to his place lol(it still dey pain me).

I got there and we had sex! I remember constantly telling this guy to wear a condom and he said he would but laass lasss he poured inside me. We went out the next day to get some groceries and we bought post pills on our way home.

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Reality; Should I forget him and move on?

I forgot to take the post pill so I took it early the following morning. So he left for work on Monday morning and I was also supposed to return to Kumasi that very day so I decided to clean his room before leaving. I started arranging his stuff and guess what? I found a hidden framed picture of himself and a lady and I could tell from the picture that they’re married. I nearly fainted! I then went through his stuff well and I saw ladies clothes hidden in his room. Oyiwa them take do me!!! How on earth did I end up dating someone’s husband? I came back to Kumasi without asking the guy about it.

I asked him about it when I got home and he said it’s true and that he isn’t happy with his marriage and that’s why he moved to Takoradi. I decided to let him go and forget about him again. So just last 18th September, I realized that I was pregnant and I told this guy about it and he blocked me everywhere. I was forced to show up at his house and cause a scandal! After showing up and creating a scene at his neighborhood he apologized and said he wants me to abort the pregnancy 🤰.

I requested that he gives me $500 which he tried bargaining and I refused so he had to give me the money as requested. He sent me the money 3weeks ago and I haven’t heard anything from him since then. I can’t abort this baby! I can’t kill my innocent child! This guy has no idea that I’m still pregnant. He hasn’t even bothered to call or text me to find out how I’m doing after the supposed abortion. I’ve been forced to sleep with this guy who has been chasing me for years now after I realized that I was pregnant and now this new boyfriend of mine thinks he’s the father of my baby! I’m not a bad person but I needed a father for my child.

 

Sometimes I feel like telling my new guy the truth but who’ll cater for my baby if I do that? And moreover the real father of my baby has blocked me everywhere. Dear Andrew Emmanuel, I hope this gets to you or your relatives. I’m tired of all this😭. Guys please help me out🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 getting over him, how can I get over him?

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