OPINION: THIS GIRL REALLY INTO ME OR SHE IS JUST USING ME AS AN OPPORTUNIST SINCE I DO PROVIDE HER NEEDS?

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Hi Felitians, A friend of mine ask me to post so he can get ideas especially from the ladies”.

Hello everyone, I’m in a very serious relationship with this beautiful lady. I met her in the eastern region (Nsawam precisely). We started dating for a year and half now. We’ve met only twice.We talked very well and i was convinced that she’s really into me. She’s very lovely too.I do help her financially and in everything regarding advice,motivation,etc

There’s this attitude of her which really makes me doubt her, if she’s really into me and it keeps getting worse anytime I complain, of which she has no tangible reason to give. She will just skip it like that, most of our call is on these social media app esp.whatsapp,messenger and sometimes on snap

But the thing is,more often she is online but will not chat me nor reply my messages, not even the likes of “how are you?” “I love you”,etc.

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Sometimes, even if the message is about asking of her health, it really pains most at times because she can be online for more than an hour but will not reply back or call until she’s done with whatever she’s doing.

Ever since we started dating,i have never enjoyed chatting with her for about 10 mins, i mean straight chat to chat without her delaying whiles she’s still online, sometimes, no reply until after days, then, she will only open it without reply

There were times i made a couple of friends chatted her, just to know if maybe she’s been busy, but to my surprise, the speed at which she replies the messages really makes me so sad. During those times too, i have already called and left her texts messages, but this girl will come and reply my friends message, although, she doesn’t know they are my friends, sometimes she will be replying to my friend and i will be calling her,but she won’t answer nor reply my own messages but rather my friends’.

All i need is ideas from the ladies please, IS THIS GIRL REALLY INTO ME OR SHE IS JUST USING ME AS AN OPPORTUNIST SINCE I DO PROVIDE HER NEEDS?