When I was younger, I was verbally bullied by nearly everyone, including my family members for having big lips; I grew up believing that I would have been much more handsome if my lips were a bit smaller.
For a long time in my life, I had the opportunity to kiss, but I did not do it because I was not proud of my lips. I did not want to embarrass the girls. However, I realized that a lot of women fancied kissing me and I could not tell why.
One lady once called me an alien for persistently refusing to kiss her, another lady forced a kiss out of me when I was reluctant to let her. This acceptance of my lips from those I thought would hate them made me go into more research about sexual attraction, which is, in a layman’s term, referred to as ‘physical attraction.’
I found that being sexy has little to do with being beautiful and generally accepted; I found also that the sexiest part of my body is my lips – it was not a surprise therefore that nearly all the women that I have been with wanted me to kiss them at all costs. Are you surprised? This is real!
Being tall, well-built, handsome, beautiful, and curvy re not all there is of sexiness! These qualities are only good on paper and in movies – in real life, being sexy has little to do with being beautiful or handsome.
Although, because of criticism, a lot of people do not accept to like qualities that are not generally accepted or beautiful, they find very pleasing and attractive. Many people usually go for the accepted qualities but this is because those with unpopular but sexy qualities do not know how to project what they have and make people love them.
For instance, I once told a lady that I liked her legs but she felt awkward because she had a slight k-leg. She did not talk to me again after that but that k-leg is the reason why I found her sexy.
She may have been made to believe that those are the worst parts of her body, so when I told her I liked them, she may have taught that I was mocking her. Truthfully, I find women with k-legs or big legs sexy, while other men may find thin & bold legs sexy. Sexiness is not one-size-fit.
The quality that you consider the worst may actually be the sexiest thing about you. Your flat ass, big belly, small breasts, stretch marks, black complexion, big lips, big legs, big nose, wide mouth, big head, shortness, tallness, thinness, fatness, thick accent, and other qualities that you wish you can change in you may be the sexiest thing in you.
It is not about what you have, or what you don’t, it is about how you carry what you have.
What also makes a person look sexy to you despite it is not generally accepted or considered beautiful?
CREDIT; Soul’e Rhymez & you can talk to me by clicking on the link below.