Choosing A Life Partner.

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Choosing My Lifetime Partner.

 

The indices you use in deciding who to approach for a Relationship and who you Accept to go into a relationship with are very important.

 

When checking out the suitability of a Person as a life partner, you observe:

 

1) THEIR FRUITS (CHARACTER) FIRST

 

Long skirt and No make up is not a character.

 

Praying loudly in Church is not character

 

Hips and Big Breast is CHEMISTRY, not CHARACTER,

 

Check How they THINK about Life, Marriage, Family Life, in-laws, and how they TALK, to men, women, children, the less privileged. Etc

 

Check How they ACT, how they REACT to and HANDLE situations. (check for any tendencies for violence and abuse in them)

 

Do they show self control and restraint?

 

Check the FRIENDS they keep

 

Who are their ROLE MODELS?

 

Be on the lookout for Red Flags.

 

2) Then THEIR SPIRITUALITY

 

Again, long skirt is not spirituality

 

He plays keyboard in church is not spirituality

 

Youth President is a Title

 

Relationship Coach is just a Title

 

Are they born again?

 

Do they enjoy Prayers?

 

Do they enjoy the WORD or they enjoy the WORLD (lust of the flesh, Lust of the eyes and pride of life) more?

 

Do the spiritual exercises you see them engage in show off in their Life?

 

He’s prayerful, but he won’t stop staring at your breasts and telling you how sexy you’re.

 

3) IS THERE COMPATIBILITY?

 

Is there Spiritual Compatibility? Same beliefs?

 

Is there Marital compatibility? Same expectations about Marriage?

 

Do our Purposes align?

 

Can he/she help me fulfill my Purpose?

 

4) PRAY.

 

What prayer cannot reveal, it doesn’t exist.

 

Prayers will expose evil people who successfully use pretense to scale through the first 3 hurdles.

 

Don’t joke with Prayers.

 

“Father reveal her true nature to me”

 

“father expose him to me for who he is, real or fake”

 

If God is your father, he’ll answer You.

Remember, you can’t give what you don’t have, before you start checking someone for these things, check yourself FIRST.

 

Learn, & Grow Without Limit.

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